The success rate of Russian and American marriage

Despite all the potential pitfalls and cultural differences, most Russian and American marriages are successful.

It is difficult to collect exact statistics for a variety of reasons. First, most census reports do not use the categories of Russian women and American men for statistics.

Second, the marriage between Russia and the United States is largely a recent phenomenon. Most of them only happened after the collapse of the Soviet Union.

The number of marriages is small at the outset and is motivated over time.

Therefore, most Russian-American marriages are a relatively new phenomenon. It is difficult to predict how these marriages will stand the test of time.

However, INS statistics estimate that about 80% of Russian marriages in Russia and the United States are intact after two years. This is based on the number of green cards and naturalization applications they receive.

Marriage agencies that specialize in bringing together American men and Russian women estimate that between 80% and 95% of marriages are successful, depending on which agency reports.

I venture to say that the failure of 20% of Russian-American marriages is essentially the fault of American men.
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  Whether American men are not wise to choose a partner, or a man is not a good marriage partner.

They married a woman who was thirty years younger than them. Before they got married, they never went beyond beauty to understand what their partner is like. They use their money, status, assets or location as bait to attract their partners.

They can't keep up with the sexual desire or other energy needs of the young wife. They have roommates or other people living with them, which can undermine the family's living conditions.

They continue their chauvinism, alcoholism, femininity or violence, destroying their previous marriage.

Maybe they didn't do enough to help their fiancés experience the difficult period of cultural shock when they first came to the United States. Maybe they don't have enough patience to help their fiancé understand all the details of American life that we take for granted.

Maybe they think they can play the role of "control." Their foreign wife because she doesn't know better. ' Maybe they think they have a sex toy, who will undoubtedly meet their requirements.

The reason I say these things is that most Russian women think it is very important to get and keep married. The status of married women in Russia is much higher than that of singles.

Russian women will redouble their efforts to make their marriage a success.

They have no marital commitment to Western women. For the benefit of marriage, even if they think that marriage is not ideal, they often get married.

This requires emotional and spiritual maturity that many people do not have.

Over the past three decades, marriage partners have increasingly placed their self-needs ahead of family and child needs in Western societies.

This is the consequence of "I". generation. The family, especially the children, was sacrificed on the altar of self-satisfaction. The immature spouse's self-request puts his own satisfaction before the welfare of his family and children.

This is one of the reasons why the US nuclear family has decreased from 80% to 20% in the past three decades.

The missing ingredient is a promise. Russian women are seeking to marry Western men because many Russian men are no longer interested in the promise of family life. Peter Pans is afraid to grow up.

American men are turning to Russian women because they believe that these women reflect the traditional values ​​that American women lack. The number one traditional value that is missing is

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Many American men also have a problem of commitment. They believe that because they marry a foreign woman, they don't have to work hard. They are wrong.

Because of all cultural differences, marriage between American men and Russian women requires more work.

But if both spouses are committed to making the marriage a success, then these things can be solved.

I venture to say:

If American men choose a Russian woman with an average appearance, a woman over 35 years old or a woman with children; and...

If they change their lifestyle choices, stay away from drug and alcoholism, violence, femininity and pornography; and...

If they try to ease the cultural shock, they must patiently teach their Russian wife about their new country's life and become a better husband and father; the success rate of Russian-American marriage will be close to 100%.

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